I didn't say Lamar wasn't in his right not to play. He is. John's also right to be frustrated by the fact that the medical team gives him a path to play and he declines to do so. Is that what's in the Ravens best interest, or is it purely in what's in Lamar's best interest?
I also find this "I support Lamar in not playing" stance a little hypocritical by some. I don't remember the same stances for Pierce, or Dobbins, or Stanley last year, or Bateman this year. I remember fans being frustrated that they wouldn't recover from injuries quick enough, and being mad that they wouldn't play. Yet, by several of those accounts, those players could have played. They just would have been less effective. They opted for surgery so that they could heal. Don't recall seeing much praise for the fanbase from those decisions.
And in fact, I remember specifically that John said both Bateman and Pierce had "choices to make" in regards to their health. While I don't know specifically what that means, it implies that season-ending surgery may not have been the only option. Yet its the option they chose.
They're not wrong for choosing it. Teams also not wrong for being frustrated with the choice. Same principle here.
The REAL difference is how biased people are either towards or against Lamar.