The child is a living, breathing human being from the moment of conception. That is not a matter of opinion or debate, that is what science tells us.
I'm certainly not putting all the blame on women. I just got done saying "just because the two of them couldn't be bothered to use birth control" meaning they are both responsible for her getting pregnant, and I said that if abortions are going to be allowed, it should be with both the man and woman's consent, which forces them both to be accountable for the child.
At any rate, if a woman can't be bothered with the responsiblities or challenges of pregnancy, guess what? They make condoms, pills, shots, etc precisely for that reason. Aside from the rare event of birth control failing, there's no excuse for an unwanted pregnancy. Well, there is an excuse; it's called being irresponsible, but that's hardly a good one.